Sunday, July 31, 2011

Back from the cottage

Where to start? Where to start? This post will surely jump around because it has been too long. Wednesday the kids and I headed off to Michigan early because of the storms that were traveling through. After a stop off for lunch and gas we continued and got to the cottage mid afternoon. Ellie went to Clubhouse and it was the talent show (the calendar was wrong otherwise she might have prepared something). Nick and I went to get some videos in town.
I was matched to a support seeker through Immerman and I got the introduction email on my way up to the cottage. After playing a bit of phone tag we got to talk on the phone for a long time. I really felt it brought me full circle. In talking with her I realized how far I have come in a year.
It was very weird being up at the cottage without Rob - never has happened before. The storms that happened Wednesday night were incredible. I stayed up to watch Arthur (cute movie) and when I was getting ready to head up the storm had begun and I had to stay up and watch it. Thankfully, the power only went out for a minute at 12:42AM.
Thursday morning Ellie went to Clubhouse for the carnival prep. I can't really recall what Nick and I did. When Ellie got home we had lunch and then headed to the beach. The water was gorgeous - nice and warm, yet refreshing. We stayed on the beach until early evening - went back to the cottage to clean up. Clubhouse was cancelled for the evening so I said we were going to go out to eat. We tried a new Mexican restaurant in town, Su Casa. They had the most amazing avocado - tomatillo salsa - so refreshing with just a bit of heat.
We had a lovely dinner and then the kids begged to get ice cream. We went to Nemo's and got ice cream and then Nick begged to go down to the harbor to eat - we did. We got to hear the concert was happening in the park and watch the boats. We went home and watched Rango.
Friday morning, Nana had to wake us up. Another huge storm came through overnight and this was the first one to wake the kids up. Nick woke up crying and disoriented and Ellie woke up asking why the storm had to be so loud? Ellie grabbed a bite to eat and was off for the final carnival prep at Clubhouse. Nick, Nana and I ran into town to do some grocery shopping for dinner. We got back just a few minutes before Ellie.
We had lunch and then were off to the beach. Water was warm again but with huge waves. As we were about to pack things up Rob arrived and said he would stay with them for a bit longer if I wanted to head up to clean up and get dinner started. Ellie was a great helper this weekend with food prep. When they came back she helped me with dinner salads and cutting the bread up. We had dinner and then we went down to the carnival on the village green.
The mosquitoes were ridiculous this weekend - probably from all the rain but truly a pain. We all had bug spray on and you could just watch them land on you and start drinking your blood. Poor Nick had about a dozen on his forehead. The carnival was ok - usual games but this year they were back to being stingy with the prizes. Ellie had 2 shifts, bean bag toss and cake walk. Nick wanted to help her with both of those shifts. We had some ice cream from the soda bar and then convinced Nick to join us walking back to the cottage.
We put in Secretariat (I recommend it) and we all stayed up and watched it. Ellie came home with the remaining desserts from the cake walk (cupcakes and cookies). Even though it was well past the kids bedtime we couldn't get either of them to sleep - too excited. Rob and I were able to watch the Katherine Heigl, Josh Dummel movie (can't recall the title) it was cute. We went up to bed together but I couldn't fall asleep. Oh...my email was hacked into -sorry about the spam.
Saturday we woke up and had breakfast. I honestly cannot recall what we did until it was time to hit the beach. Oh, I remember we tried to play tennis but it was soooo hot outside that we went to get ice cream for lunch. We went down to the beach after lunch and stayed until late afternoon. Ellie's friend, Jackie, invited us to come back down after dinner for a campfire and s'mores. We had dinner and then the kids and I ran into town to return the videos and to pick up s'mores supplies. Nick realized when we were walking through the store that he forgot to put underwear on and his pant kept falling down. We went down to the beach in our clothes but the kids were quickly wanting to be back in the lake - so we told them to just go in. It was a lovely evening on the beach - not too hot. We had s'mores and the kids swam until the sunset. We got bitten alive on our way back to the cottage.
We got the kids to sleep and then Rob and I went to hang out on the couch. Rob didn't last long and I wasn't tired so I stayed up watching bad cable. I went up to bed because there wasn't anything on tv but I could not fall asleep. Pretty bad nights sleep last night - I kept waking up and then not being able to fall back asleep.
This morning we all woke up to Nick's coughing. It has gotten progressively worse as the week ended. For the first time ever, he asked if we had his "puff puff" (inhalers) up at the cottage - he knew he needed help. I gave him his inhalers and we went down for breakfast. Ellie and Rob ran to Menard's to pick up a lamp for Ellie's room back at home (it was on sale and the sale ended today). We all went to the beach when they got back. The water was much cooler this morning but refreshing after the air began to get warmer. We stayed at the beach for a couple hours and came back and cleaned up. We had lunch and then we got the cars packed up. Rob followed us until we got off for our halfway washroom/gas stop. We stopped at Culver's for the washroom and then a bowl of custard, yum! Even though 780 said that only the express lanes were backed up...they were wrong. It took forever to get from about 25th up to Belmont.
We finally got home and unloaded the car. Rob went straight to a clients to work. We pretty much jumped back in the car to head to Mom and Dad's for dinner. Jo and T were there and the kids all missed each other. Mom had made a wonderful dinner - she has really perfected this bread salad - nice and garlicky tonight. The kids played for a bit and then we came home.
We put together Ellie's new light and she called Rob to see if he could pick up light bulbs on the way home. The kids went outside to play with the neighbors but Nick came in panting. We got them ready for bed and Nick kept asking for another dose of his inhaler (I had just given him both his inhalers). Should be an interesting night.
I am trying to keep my mind off the itching of these mosquito bites. I was just thinking to myself (before this past weekend) that possibly mosquitoes weren't interested in me anymore because I don't think I have had anymore than one bite this whole summer...but they made up for it this weekend. Happy to be home and able to stay for more than a couple days. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

It is late...

Been playing games and time got away from me. Another sleepless night. I went up to bed around 2:30AM but I think it was near 4AM when I actually fell asleep. Nick surprised the pants off me this morning. I heard him get out of bed and heard some movement and then the gate. I heard footsteps down the stairs and then back up again. He came into my room and said good morning and then showed me that he had gotten dressed all by himself - orange t-shirt, khaki shorts, blue knee socks and black crocs. He said he had gone to the washroom, brushed his teeth but couldn't get the TV on. Ellie slept in until 8:30AM and looked even taller than yesterday when she woke up.
We had breakfast and just really hung around the house this morning. I put a bit of the basement back in place and cleaned up a little bit. We went over to Mom and Dad's house a bit before lunch - they were watching the kids so I could go see Patricia. We had lunch and then I went up for my session. I told Patricia about the sleeplessness and about my left foot still being more sensitive than the right. Patricia placed the needles appropriately to hopefully aid in sleep. It seemed like I was there forever today.
The staff at the Park Center had an in-service this morning with the company that makes my mushroom extract and Patricia had learned that the lion's mane pill helps rebuild nerves - she put aside a bottle for me. I am willing to try almost anything to get me feet back to normal. I came home for a bit to put my things together for Millietime and then stopped by target to pick up sour cream and my prescriptions. I forgot to mention...I scheduled my colonoscopy appointment with Dr. Bianchi (new doctor for me) and my post surgery Dr. Muldoon appointment.
When I was driving back to Mom's I saw Dad with Ellie and Nick going for a walk to the park. Mom and I got our food ready and talked until Jo and Tony came over. T and I went out to cut some hydrangeas for a vase - Mom has the most beautiful purple and blue flowers this year. The ladies came over and we had our first Millietime since April...too long ago. Great food today - so summery. The kids played well together (for the most part). We got to skype with Kelly and Molly - how neat to meet Ms. Molly. She is a wonderful combination of Kelly and Dave. Tony seemed pretty interested in the whole skype thing, too.
Ellie and Nick caught lightening bugs galore tonight. We came home and had vitamins, got PJs on and I washed the kids from the knees down (it will do for tonight). I actually started Nick on flovent tonight because I think the mold count int he air has to be high. Ellie asked for an extra box of Kleenex tonight so something is bothering her allergies, too.
Rob went to look at the wicker set and didn't buy it he said it was garbage can worthy. I emailed a listing in South Haven, we will see. I re listed my stuff on craigslist - hopefully we can get some of the furniture out of here. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Monday, July 25, 2011

My, oh my, Monday

Last night sleep did not go as well...I, once again, could not fall asleep. I went up to bed around 2AM and found Nick sleeping next to Rob. I moved Nick into his bed and then tried to fall asleep , moving here and there and it was about 3:45AM the last time I looked at the clock. Ellie was up around 7AM and I asked her to wake me up if I wasn't already up by 8AM.
We had breakfast and got dressed and then we were on our way to Northwestern for Nick to participate in a study at the Early Learning lab. Nick likes going to "college". When we pulled up he started telling Ellie all about his last visit. Today he had to listen to music and see a picture of the instrument and then try to re-identify it about a minute later. Then he had to put about 2 dozen golf tees into peg board to play a game and get a sticker and every time he wanted a new sticker he has to re-load the peg board - it worked twice. He got a couple stickers and a new book.
We had a parking permit for the day at any of the campus lots so we drove over to the lake and walked around. Ellie liked all the painted rocks and Nick liked taking pictures. It was a beautiful morning to walk along the lake shore path. We went home because I realized I had left the coffee pot on before we left. Ellie and I were able to read almost all of her newest book before Mom and Dad came to pick up the kids so that they could go with to pick Tony up from school. I went to pickup lunch at Wendy's but apparently in the week we were gone Wendy's closed for remodeling. I then tried the Burger King on Lincoln but they too had closed. It seriously was comical because I also realized I had forgotten my phone at home and couldn't explain why it was taking me so long.
We ate lunch at our house and the kids played for a little bit. We finished Ellie's book -now officially halfway through. We got our water and camera and we were on our way to Wagner Farms. Ellie drove with me and Mom and Dad took the boys with them to pick up the GGs and meet us at the farm. Ellie and I sat on a bench in the sun while we waited for the gang to get there. Unfortunately, most of the animals were away at the county fair but it was still a very nice afternoon.
They had new chickens and we got to see all the vegetable gardens. We went inside and the kids loved to show the GGs the milking cow, the pig feed and the old fashioned store. We finished our visit by getting ice cream from the dairy. We sat outside and had our treat and it was a lovely afternoon. We said goodbye and the kids and I came home. They went outside to play and enjoy the day.
Rob came home and took Nick to the pool while Ellie and I went to pottery. Ellie made a candle holder today - inspired by a picture Cathy had brought in. I glazed Ellie's s'mores plate - it came out very cute. Next week is our last class for the summer. We stopped at the grocery store on our way home and did a little shopping - fruit, veggies, milk and waffles.
We came home and Rob helped me take groceries in and unpack while the kids played with the neighbors. We decided to let them stay and play until the lightening bugs came out. We had a late dinner and got ready for bed. The kids went to bed pretty easily. Something is bothering Nick's allergies right now - mold, most likely. The boy is one giant mucus ball.
I think we have found a wicker set for Michigan - Rob is going to look at it tomorrow night. We have sold one of the beds - Rob is going to make the exchange on Wednesday. Things are coming along - just 2 more beds (we brought Ellie's bed home from Michigan) and a changing table and vanity. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Back for a few days



Vacation is over but we will be back up at the cottage on Wednesday. Ellie found out that the park carnival is early this year and if she wants to work a game she has to be there on Thursday and Friday to do the prep work. We will most likely head up after lunch on Wednesday and then Rob will join us after he leaves work on Friday.



Last part of the week was still hot and seemed to get steamier as the days went on. We were lucky on the rain front until Friday. The storms were all at night until then. There was incredible lightening - we stayed up one night to watch because the neighbors were not up next door and it was pitch black except for the lightening.

We went bowling and then pretty much did the beach thing in the afternoons. Nana taught Ellie the basics of knitting - I am sure they will work some more this coming week. We finished another book - almost halfway done. Rob inflated a shark ride-on for the water and the kids loved being roped together and out in the water.

We went to the park rummage sale and found new life jackets for both the kids and 2 chairs for the deck off Ellie's room (here at home). We looked for a bigger air conditioner unit - now that we have bigger windows upstairs but there were none to be had in Michigan.

We left Saturday morning to come home because the forecast didn't show the rain letting up. We did our chores - washed the sheets and made our beds, finished laundry, cleaned up all the toys and craft projects, packed the cars and were on our way. Nick drove home with me and Ellie with Rob.

We came home and discovered that the basement had water. Not too much but enough to require cleaning up. We have rubber mats all through the basement and the ones in the laundry room didn't have clear water running off of them meaning the floor drain had backed up. We bleached all the mats and the floor and set all the fans out to dry everything out. Mom and Dad got water, Jo and Ole got water - we were not alone.

We went over to Mom and Dad's and Tony was there - we had a nice visit and dinner. We came home and moved the kids mattresses up to their rooms and set them up for sleep. First night in their rooms in about a month. I could not get sleepy last night - it was 1:30AM and I still wasn't tired but decided to try to go up to bed. I tossed and turned for over an hour - I probably should have just come back down and read but I kept trying to sleep.

The kids slept wonderfully in their new beds in the their new rooms. Ellie was the first one up but Nick slept in until almost 9AM. We did some more cleaning downstairs this morning - flipping the couches so we could pull the mats under them. Ellie and I made notes from the library books we were returning and then we went to the library to see which books we could find off the booklist. We found 7 books and I reserved a few more. We went to TJ Maxx afterwards and we found a pair of king sized pillows to put between the kids mattress and the wall - there is about 6-7" of space and we don't want Nick to get wedged and Ellie to loose things. We got lunch and came home. Ellie and I were able to sit and read for a hour or so and get one of the new books read - woohoo. We started another but they eventually went outside to play.

We went over to Mom and Dad's house for dinner - we brought our newest green bean supply with - enough to make a small side dish. My garden loved the rain - I have these huge squash and zucchini plants with a bunch of flowers but no veggies yet. My tomato plants (for just being grape tomatoes) are humongous - over 4' tall. We had dinner and came home. Ellie and I read through half another book and the kids had their bath.

We got the kids to sleep and then we've been on the couch. Vacation was nice - I seriously don't recall it ever being so sticky, hot and gross up there. The picture above was from the day we left for Michigan - we thought the cloud looked like Pegasus with a rainbow running through it.

My feet have pain on and off mostly I notice it when I wake up in the morning and at night. Plum has healed nicely - I occasionally get a ping of pain but really not bad. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Mid week updates

Just the highlights because it is soooo humid and gross that the keys on the keyboard are even sticking. We had a 2 hour power outage right after I last posted - Rob took the kids down to the Lake to cool off. We've been all over - St. Joe's Curious Kids museum and the sprinkler park there. Holland for some thrift shopping and all the big boys took the kids mini-golfing, bumper car riding and arcading.
We had Edwin's birthday meal right on the water in Saugatuck yesterday. The kids saw the duck boats and the huge paddle boat and want to come back to go for a ride another time. Dean and I went to a coupe wineries because he needed some gifts.
We have spent most afternoons on the beach - the water progressively warms a bit more each day. Ellie and I have been able to finish 3 books so far. I can't stand being in this room to much longer - no air conditioning and it is just sticky.
Dean left last night to go back home. Ellie has been enjoying clubhouse - pancake breakfast, bunko, clue hunt tonight. Nick has been a busy boy too - he has figured out that if he asks me for money for the soda bar he gets 2 quarters and that is what it takes to play the video games. We bought a tiny boat today - just a blow up one that holds about 120 pounds but the kids really liked it.
Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Weekend Updates

We drove up on Thursday, we left a bit earlier than Rob. We needed to take 2 cars so that we could move the box springs from home up to the cottage. Ellie woke up sick on Thursday, changing the plans for the day a bit. We were supposed to meet my girlfriend, Julie, for the morning for some shopping and lunch....Ellie was to sick to go out. We left for Michigan around 11AM. We stopped off in Michigan City for lunch and then made a quick stop at the outlet mall - big deals. We ended up being near the same part of Michigan as Rob - so he pulled next to us and we drove up together.
We had dinner with Nana and our friend, Travis. I got the beds made up with the new frames, sheets and quilts. Looks real nice. We got to bed pretty quick because it was a long day. Friday we got up and had breakfast and got on the road to Grand Rapids. We went to the shoe outlet but didn't find anything and then to the Children's Museum - one of the kids favorites. We just sort of cruised around until it was time to got the airport to pick up Edwin.
We picked up Edwin and made it back to the cottage super quick because the kids wanted to go the clubhouse for movie night - How to Train Your Dragon. We got a couple pizzas and had dinner - Nick actually tried a piece and liked it! The kids went to movie night but left because it was too hot. Nick had taken a nap after the airport so getting them to sleep really was long, long battle.
Saturday the boys were up early to load all our donations into the pole barn for the community rummage sale this next week. Rob took the kids to the beach early - they ended up staying all day. Dean and I went shopping for some incidentals and things for dinner. When we got back we joined everyone down at the beach for a bit. The water is only about 60 degrees - pretty cold but the air is so humid it sort of feels good.
We came back and showered and got dinner going. Ellie and Nick watched Diary of a Wimpy Kid before dinner and really enjoyed it. We walked down for the sunset -it was pretty. Kids went to sleep pretty quick last night - it is just hard because it is so steamy to want to sleep in beds that seem wet.
Today we all got up and had breakfast. Ellie and I went into town to pick up some corn for dinner and made a stop off to the Dollar store and sporting goods store. Good deals continue - I got Rb North Face sandals for 14.00 - from 70.00. We came back and Rob took them down to the beach. I waited in the cottage because John, Desi, Natalie and Brady were going to stop by and visit on their way back to Chicago. They came late afternoon and we walked down to the beach and then to the soda bar for a treat. They just left and the kids just came back from the beach. Dinner time soon. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Cool house

I think everyone slept pretty well last night. Mom and I stayed up until about 1AM and then we both started dozing off. We got up this morning and had breakfast and I took a quick shower. I realized it was beautiful out and turned the air off and opened all the windows.
I cruised off to Kellogg to do my part to spread the word of i2y. Mom and Dad stayed at my house and watched the kids. Stephanie helped me grab a table and I set up my display - handouts, bracelets, pins, pens and general info. I had about 2 dozen people stop at the table during the hour I was there and I feel real good about the mission. Today, I only ran into one person who was age appropriate but a few of the nurses pulled info for patients coming in later that day.
I went over to Mom and Dad's, they were on the way there after they picked up Tony. I opened all the windows to try to cool the house down. We picked up lunch and ate al fresco in the yard. We got to play for a little bit, they boys ran around, Ellie watered the plants. Ellie and I headed out to do a market research study together.
It was fun - it was on locker decorating (not something Ellie has got into yet). They wanted feedback on potential products, themes and colors. Then they introduced a couple concepts they are working on for room decorating and craft kits. I got paid and Ellie got $50 in room decorating samples.
We went back to Mom and Dad's and they finally had power restored. We got the kids together on the porch and for some "Blues Cousin" pictures (Mom had bought them fedoras and black sunglasses). We came home and the kids helped me unload the car and then they went out to play.
Poor Nick did not have a good track record for injuries today. First I head the smack of the baseball bat, then the crying and then I was running towards the door. I guess Nick was walking up the pathway just as our neighbor was swinging the bat and they collided - just under Nick's eye. We iced it for about 5 minutes and then he went back to playing. Next, Nick was leaning over the sprinkler to get sprinkled and somehow he put his weight on one end and it jumped up and hit him in the nose. Last, he was rolling on the skateboard (on his stomach) and rolled over his pointer finger. He cut his nail in half and it was oozing blood. He kept trying to peel the nail off but the blood really started dripping when her did that. We came in and cleaned the cut up and bandaged it.
Rob came home and we let him take a shower before we decided to start vacation off the right way with ice cream for dinner. We ran by the library to return some books and get some more. It was Wednesday night on the village green - they have a DJ and some vendors and just a wide open place to dance. Rob and the kids stayed out to enjoy the music and I ran in.
We stopped at Chocolate Shoppe for ice cream and came home. The kids stayed out to catch lightening bugs - they have been making very elaborate houses for the bugs. I packed up clothes for all of us and a set of sheets for Nick's new twin bed at the cottage. Rob and I emptied out his car so we could load the box springs to take up.
We got the kids to sleep and then I have been perusing craigslist for interesting things in Michigan. I am not sure what my posting schedule will be like for the next 10 days or so...dial up connection at the cottage. So, this might be the last post until the 24th. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

All in the Family

Woohoo for sleeping in. Nick slept in until 9AM this morning. Ellie had been making "emergency" plans with Mom. We hung around here this morning but Mom and Dad came over a bit before lunchtime. They still have no power and have been told it will likely be Friday around noon before it comes back on.
I went to see Patricia for a session. She attacked top and bottom of my feet again and put needles where they have never been before. I came back home and had lunch. Mom read to Ellie and agreed that the book choices were crappy. The kids sort of went nuts and we decided it was time to leave the house.
We went by the house that the tree fell on yesterday - the tree has been removed and a tarp on the roof but the bricks were in a pile on the ground. We went to Dollar Tree - always an adventure to children. We picked up some summer things and some cookies that looked good to the kids. I found magic shell there - a childhood favorite.
We ran by Mom and Dad's to collect their fridge and freezer food. We visited with Katerine for a few minutes and that's when we found out about the whole lights out until Friday deal. We bagged up the good stuff from Mom and Dad's fridge and some clothes and toiletries and we were on our way back here.
The kids played outside with the neighbors while Mom and I stuffed the fridge with their food. We got dinner going - leftover night just to be able to get rid of some of the containers. Dad and Nick watered the garden - so excited how huge everything is getting. We had dinner but the kids didn't really eat well. They went out after dinner to catch lightening bugs with the neighbors.
The kids came in and we watched the first part of America's Got Talent and then Mom and Ellie read a bit more. Rob came home and we caught up for a couple minutes. We got the kids to sleep and it is a bit odd to be writing this sitting in between Mom and Dad. It is like a sleepover party. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Monday, July 11, 2011

First day without camp

Nick fell out of bed around midnight. I went in to catch him crawling back into bed and he was basically still asleep. Ellie was up first this morning with Nick sleeping in a bit. Ellie said I should check out how he was sleeping, head where his feet should be and pretty much on Ellie's side. Although it was nice and sunny when we woke up it quickly turned to black skies. A huge storm came through with the kind of lightening and thunder that you just know is hitting something.
Mom called and told us they had lost power, again. We called ComEd for them and the automated system informed me that it would most likely be days until they would get their power back. We got dressed and decided to do some science projects. We made snow and rainbow crystals. I picked up this test tube kit a while back at salvation and it had 6 different project in it. We finished and got out of the house. We headed out to possibly start at the Exploritorium but a bunch of other people had that idea so we kept driving.
We went up to Glenview and parked to go into VonMaur but realized there was no power there. We went to Costco and got some fruit and garbage bags and the kids got to sample a few things. We even found that they have a cannoli cake now (we tried it tonight - not as good as Dominos but pretty good for about $8.00). We stopped into HomeGoods and I was able to find matching quilts for the kids beds at the cottage on clearance. Ellie found coordinating throw pillows also on clearance. We picked up a new bed protector for Ellie's new mattress to keep the dust mites out. We also got new pillows for home.
We came home and put groceries away and had lunch. We braved the Exploritorium this afternoon - it wasn't too crowded. Ellie hadn't been since they remodeled. We stayed for over an hour and a half and the kids wore themselves out in the tunnels and slides. We stopped into 7-11 for slurpee day but between the massive power outages and heat they were out but we got small ones anyway.
We came home and Rob came home from work. Ellie helped me prep for dinner - egg salad, berry medley, veggie sticks and corn. Rob took Nick to the pool and Ellie and I went to pottery. I glazed tonight and Ellie made a s'mores plate. It is a small plate and she made mini marshmallows, graham crackers and chocolate bars and then even made skewers.
We came home and had dinner and then Ellie and I read a bit more of her book. The selections for the Battle of the Books are not great (in my opinion). So far, all 3 of the books we have read have some character that had cancer and dies. When I was trying to see what books the library had last week I noticed that the majority are either mystery, ghost or medical (autism, cp, adhd...) why?
Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Sunday, July 10, 2011

We got a bunch done today

Last night was the first night in almost 2 weeks that Nick woke up during the night. I heard a thud just before 5AM but no crying. Then i heard Nick's footsteps - I turned him around and tucked him back in and he was fast asleep. It took me until about 6:30AM to fall back asleep. The kids were up a bit after 7AM and I crawled into their bed and fell asleep until 8AM.
We had our breakfast and then got busy working on the house. We cleaned up the back room and really cleaned it - even clearing off the top of the tv cabinet and emptying baskets of crap. We cleaned up the living room and vacuumed. We ran out to Ace to pick up some longer screws for Nick's drawer pulls and to Target to pick up another basket for Ellie's room.
We came back and went to work of the bedrooms. I installed Nick's drawer pulls and got all his clothing organized in the drawers. I installed Ellie's pulls and got all her clothing organized into the drawers. Ellie worked on her bookcase and trinkets. We got all the clothing back in drawers and 4 rubbermaid containers put away - woohoo.
Tomorrow I think I will tackle the dining room and kitchen. When we were leaving to go to Mom and Dad's for dinner, Rob pulled in from Michigan. We gave him a hug and a quick update and then we were on our way. Ellie helped Mom make brownies for dessert and Mom had made some guacamole for an appetizer. Mom and Ellie made the oatmeal soap from her spa kit. We ordered Chinese for dinner and ate in the cool air conditioning. We had dessert and then headed home to catch up with Rob.
Rob had cleaned up all the paint spills off Ellie's bedroom floor - looks great. I did some measuring and the box springs and mattresses will not work on the beds - they will be about 36" off the floor - a bit too tall. I think we are going to bring the box springs up to the cottage and get bunkie boards for the beds here. I got some laundry loads flipped and then about 4 baskets put away. Ellie and I began her new book and got about 1/4 way through tonight.
We have lots of ideas for the week ahead. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Fun, fun day

I wish my kids would learn to sleep in. Nick was up a bit before 7 and then Ellie by 7:30. We goofed off here this morning. We all took showers, had breakfast and played. I made a fruit salad for Claire's birthday party today. We wrapped up presents. I painted Ellie's finger and toe nails. We finished Ellie's book.
Mom, Dad, Jo and T came to pick us up and we were on our way to Oakbrook for the party. Claire's party was at the nature center and we had a ball. There was a lake with paddle boats and we all went out multiple times. We got to take the swan paddle boat out which was the safest option for the little boys.
The kids got to fish in the lake. We had lunch under the gazebo and the kids played in the playground. We visited the nature center and got to see many different animals and creepy things. We had birthday cake and sang to Claire. The kids were having such a great time that they didn't want to leave.
We made a quick run over to the Land of Nod outlet. I was looking for a pillow sham for Ellie's bed and train stuff for Nick's room. I didn't find either of the things I came for but did find that their basket liners were reduced down to $0.10 a piece - so I bought a bunch to remake into pillows. Jo found a pregnancy belt.
We stopped at Oberweis for a cool treat and then a stop at Goodwill. I found Nick a wheelbarrow for the yard and Ellie a cool wooden license plate game for the car rides to Michigan. We stopped off for dinner and the kids didn't disappoint us with entertainment. Nick and Tony have both lived prior lives - Nick probably in the 70s and Tony in the 80s with their dance moves.
We came home and did a quick foot wash in the tub and got vitamins and then we got to sleep. Rob was productive up at the cottage - he got Nick's toddler bed taken apart and the twin beds assembled and moved into place. He and Mom went out for a nice dinner.
I am hoping to get some work done on their rooms tomorrow - even if it is just clothing back in dressers. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Friday, July 8, 2011

Long, long Friday

Nick listened to me and came to get me this morning instead of waking Ellie up. Ellie ended up sleeping another hour after Nick got up. We got breakfast and I found the kids clothes. I made Ellie's lunch and got her lathered in sunscreen. Nick and I dropped Ellie off for her last day of camp and came home.
Jo and Tony were picking us up to do some shopping. We drove past a few garage sales but ended up at Salvation. I found a new Thomas costume, a pair of capris, a box of legos and a pair of shoes for Nick for the fall. We stopped at Goodwill (mostly for a washroom stop) and I found a signed print from one of my favorite artists with a real nice sentiment on friends.
We had lunch at Cici's pizza - funny, those are the only noodles Nick will eat. We went over to Old Navy after and I was able to get a bunch of shopping done for birthday presents I needed. Jo and Tony took us home and we had a bit of time before it was time to pick up Ellie. Nick and I explored the new box of legos. There were some very cool pieces in the box - canoes, spaceships and racing cars.
We got Ellie from camp and went to the mall. I had a few things to return and I needed to find tops to go with some of the skorts I found earlier. Great sales today, if I could find the sizes I needed. We left the mall and Nick was sort of in meltdown mode. I had got both he and Ellie a pair of flip flops (Nick's 1st pair ever) and he wasn't happy with the way they were fitting him.
We stopped to get a fruit and yogurt parfait and then we went to Target and Kohl's. I was able to find Ellie jeans for the fall for $2.48 a pair - stocked up. We hit Aldi on the way home to pick up some fruit. We had breakfast for dinner - banana chocolate chip pancakes and huge glasses of milk. Ellie and I finished her book and then I got the kids to sleep.
Feet are feeling slightly better today. My incision is bothering me today. It is throbbing and pulling, I guess that means it is probably healing. The coating is still over the stitches. My stomach has bothered me on and off today - not sure what that is all about. Looking forward to a fun time tomorrow. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Just another Thursday

This morning the kids woke up and came to find me. I made breakfast and got them settled. I got clothes ready and took a quick shower. We packed Ellie's lunch and then we were on our way to drop her off at camp. Nick and I came back here and he continued to eat and I tried to clean up the house a bit.
Mom called and Tony requested that Nick bring his Thomas train and Nick couldn't decide which one to bring so we brought the whole box over. I got the boys set up on the porch table with a couple different track layouts and they were amused. I left to go see Patricia.
When I got on the table Patricia asked about tops vs bottoms of my feet and she could sense my hesitation and laughed. She knew I didn't want the needles in the bottoms of my feet but she did it anyway. It was a very relaxing session, I could sense myself drifting to sleep but it didn't fully happen.
I stopped at the store to pick up powdered sugar for Mom and then went over to her house. The boys were watching Ponyo and snacking on popcorn. Nick and T played for a little longer and then we cleaned up and went to pick Ellie up from camp.
We came home and the kids just seemed to need to have some chill out time. Rob came home and he started to move the mattress and other things he is taking up to Michigan out to his car. Rob took the kids to the pool - pretty soon I will be able to join them! I got the back room vacuumed and some things put away. I vacuumed the dining room and the kitchen. I went up to Ellie's room and was able to move the chair and bookcase into their places. Her room looks great - can't imagine how great it will look with curtains and pictures on the wall.
I got dinner started and we ate when they got home. Nick is apparently turning into a fish in the water this year. Maybe he will go for lessons in the Fall. We had dinner and then Ellie and I read more of the new book. Rob and Nick watched Busy Town in the back room. I put the kids to sleep and then I joined Rob for some tv watching.
My feet are feeling pretty good after my session today. I have 4 more sessions scheduled and we will see from there. Rob will be heading up to Michigan tomorrow. The kids and I are here for Claire's 11th birthday party. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Middle of the week

Average night around here. We all got up around 7:30AM and I made breakfast. I found Ellie and Nick some clothes upstairs - getting increasingly difficult as the days go on because I don't know where things are. I packed Ellie her lunch and sunscreened the kids up and we were on our way to camp. It was Nick's last day as an Earth Scout - his camp picture is so cute. I took Ellie to camp and then was on my way to Target.
We were out of so many staples in our house. I had a cart load of things we needed by the end. No real bargains there today just things we needed. I ran my Target groceries home and still had a bit of time before I needed to pick Nick up. I ran to Salvation - their A/C was out and they had fans going. I was able to get a bag full of clothes for just under $20.00. I got Nick about 6 pairs of shorts and a few for Ellie. A couple pairs of maternity capris for Jo and a pair of capris for me. I was looking for a bed skirt for Ellie's room but no luck.
I came home and took tags off the clothes to wash - switched loads of laundry and then it was time to pick Nick up from camp. He made an earth scout hat today and got to bring home his earth scout bag with all his badges that he had earned. We stopped at Aldi on the way over to Mom's. It always happens, when I think I am running in for 1 thing and don't take a cart, I end up with way too much to be carrying.
We found a new beach umbrella, some strawberries and blueberries, mini peppers and ice cream treats. We went to Mom's for lunch and so Nick and Tony could play for a bit. The boys ate a nice lunch together and Mom and I had some time to catch up. Nick brought his green bean plant to Mom's house to plant - so I planted it this afternoon.
Nick and I went to pick Ellie up from camp. Ellie had swimming this morning but they played water games this afternoon. We came home and Rob was working to put Ellie's bed together. It took a few attempts but Ellie's bed is now assembled. I was able to paint the drawer pulls for her dresser and match the drawers up in the order they need to be. I was able to get the rest of the items listed on craigslist to sell.
The kids played out with the neighbors while I got dinner ready. We ate dinner and Ellie and I read our new book for a bit. We watched the first part of America's Got Talent and then we got the kids to bed. My feet are throbbing right now and I am not sure why. I get to see Patricia tomorrow and I know she will attack my feet. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Just your average Tuesday

We all slept well last night. I wish the kids slept in a bit longer than they did this morning - maybe tomorrow. We got breakfast, packed Ellie's lunch, read the rest of her book and got her to camp. Nick and I came back here and I had every intention to start putting the kids rooms back together but I really needed a lounge day.
Mom called and wanted to know if Nick and I wanted to go with them to Party City. We said sure and while we waited for them to pick us up I watered the garden. We found some leis and floral crown for Ellie for her camp performance tonight. We went to Half Price Books and then Mom and Dad dropped up back here.
Nick and I drove to get Ellie from camp. We went to the library for our last check in - the kids got t-shirts and their packs of coupons to local restaurants and places. We picked a new book from the Battle of the Books list. We came home and picked out clothes for the kids to wear to camp tonight. Ellie choose a floral halter and capris and Nick his outfit that matches his bitty baby.
We visited outside with our neighbor and her daughter in law and grandkids for a bit. The kids play real well together. Mom and Dad came to pick us up and we went over to the camp site. We were one of the first groups there so we were able to get seats right up front. It was a Hawaiian themed performance tonight.
Ellie's group did some song from Lilo and Stitch. It was cute and made us all laugh. We picked up dinner and came back here. Since our house is still in major redecorating mode - we had a picnic in the backroom and watched America's Got Talent. Mom and Dad left to go home and the kids got to watch a bit more of the show before it was time for bed.
I am feeling better today. Just my feet are aggravating me. Rob moved Ellie's bookcase up to her room so I am hoping to clean up her floor tomorrow and start getting things in her dresser and bookcase. The kids like sleeping in the living room but I am hoping to have them in their own beds in the next week or so. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Monday, July 4, 2011

Happy 4th of July

No one really wanted to wake up this morning. We had to basically prop Nick up to get clothes on him. We got the kids dressed for the church parade - Ellie was a sailor girl and Nick was Superman and together we were the Happy Henderson's - Promoting Silliness. We made the loop around the park and came back for the speeches and prizes. The kids got their prizes and we headed back home.
We met Mom, Dad and Uncle Bry for the Skokie parade. The spot we had placed our chairs down in this morning was pretty sunny by the time the parade began. It was a beautiful day, though - a bit on the warm side. The parade was fun, lots of marching bands, Shriners and candy. We stopped back at our house to load our picnic up and for a washroom break. We said goodbye to Mom and Dad and UB and we went back up to Glenview for the afternoon.
We got to eat our picnic lunch under the pine trees. The kids immediately went to the park to play. Ellie and Nick both did the running race, the balloon toss but passed on the egg toss. We got some nice time to visit with friends.
We walked over to the lake for the softball game. Brannon was very nice and gave the kids tractor rides along the lake and over the hills. Ellie braved a canoe and kayak ride out on the lake - even finding some floating lily pads from the wedding the other night. We got to see some of our favorite friends and family.
I had noticed when I tried to put my sandals back on to leave that they didn't easily slide on my feet. I had swollen feet and ankles - that doesn't happen to me often. We came home and I put my feet up for a bit. Ellie took a shower and Nick a bath. We almost finished reading Ellie's book, only 10 more pages. We put bug spray on and headed out to the fireworks.
There were a million people there tonight - our usual spot was taken so we just ended up sitting down. We entertained the kids by playing ring toss on Nick's head, or my foot or Ellie's arm. The fireworks were delightful. We made our way back to the car but I noticed that my body wasn't too happy. I had the chest pain I get when I try to run.
I think it has been a number of very full, very long days and I look forward to a quieter week. My feet still don't feel right but my chest pain has subsided. Hope everyone had a nice weekend. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Happy 3rd

Another long day...thus a shorter post. We had another good night of sleep. This morning we got up and started working right away on painting and moving furniture. We were able to get all Ellie's furniture painted and her old furniture moved out of her room. We were even able to get the doorknobs back on and a couple of things moved back into place. Ellie's room will need a real good floor washing before we finally move her in.
This afternoon we dropped the kids at Mom and Dad's and then Rob and I went to the memorial service for Sandy. It was a very fitting service for Sandy. We came back to Mom and Dad's for Family Sunday. Uncle Bry came down from Baraboo. Unfortunately, by the time we got back the GG's were saying their goodbyes - so we didn't get to visit with them.
We had a great night watching the kids play and visiting. The kids entertained with picking mulberries and catching lightening bugs and running around with flashlights. Mom's neighbor, Katherine, joined us for a bit.
We came home and found costumes for the kids for the parade tomorrow. There was just too much going on this week to figure out a cool idea for them. We were going to decorate bikes but ran out of time. We got the kids to sleep and then Rob went up to bed too.
So, my incision is pretty sore today. Nick was trying to cuddle with me earlier and I got elbowed right in it and now it just is sort of achy. My feet and back are feeling all the work we did this weekend. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Happy Birthday, Dad

Amazingly, everyone slept very well last night. I slept on the couch so that if either of the kids woke up I was down here, Rob was up in bed and the kids were in the living room. I was up first and Nick joined me around 7:30. He amazed himself, saying her couldn't believe he slept all night in the new bed. Ellie was up about 10 minutes later and Rob came down around 7:45AM. We had breakfast and tried to decide the plan of attack for the day.
Nick's room looked pretty good in daylight and didn't really need any touching up. I took the kids and we went to pick out hardware for Nick's dresser. We went to Tuesday Morning and I found really nice hand painted drawer pulls. I was also able to pick up a new mattress pad for Nick and a ironing board cover because I burned the old one. We picked up some food on the way back home.
It was so hot and humid today. We came home and stopped for a nourishment beak. Ellie and I tried to put Nick's bed together but realized that we were lacking some hardware. Nick and I ran to Ace Hardware to pick up replacements. Rob helped me put Nick's bed together and move it into place. We cleaned up Nick's room and started to move all the stuff out of Ellie's.
Luckily, Ellie has the deck off her room and we were able to place a lot of her room stuff into boxes and move it out onto the deck. We still had to work around her bed and dresser but not too bad. We were able to get about half of Ellie's room painted before we knew we would run out of paint - the heat was just sucking the paint up . Rob ran back to Lowe's to pick up another gallon and I continued painting.
Mom and Dad came over and Dad helped Rob move the new dressers up to the kids rooms. We have a very awkward staircase up to the second floor. While it looks spacious - it isn't. The angles are so harsh that we had to move our full size box spring in by hoisting it onto Ellie's deck. It took a lot of moving and re-moving the 2 dressers to get them up. We had to take the handrails off, cut off some wood and remove the glides from the dressers. While it is wonderful having real wood, quality made dressers for the kids - they weigh a ton. They moved the old dressers downstairs. Thanks Dad for helping us on your special day.
Mom and Dad left and we continued to work. Ellie helped me move the items from the deck back inside and get the room set up to switch sides and paint the rest. I got the kids into the shower because we had at least 2 incidents of feet in paint trays today. We came down and had some snacks and Ellie and I read another 50 pages in her book.
Rob went back to work in Ellie's bedroom and I got the kids to sleep. I joined Rob when I was done and we think the room looks okay but we were working in shadows and had to stop. Pretty much we might have to do some touch up on the walls and ceiling tomorrow and a second coat on the trim but it looks good. Ellie's dresser will need some major work because the paint got screwed up moving it upstairs. We still have Ellie's bed to paint and her bookshelf. Then we will need to put both of their rooms back to order.
The kids might just be sleeping in the living room for another couple nights. I am very happy with the way my incision looks. My feet are killing me. I think we will all sleep well again tonight. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal. Tree

Friday, July 1, 2011

Freaky friday

Slept on the couch last night. I stayed up until 2AM so I could take the Tylenol. My hip was still not happy with me trying to sleep on it. Ellie was the first to join me this morning followed a few minutes later by Nick. I got them breakfast and went up to try to get a few more minutes of sleep in bed...didn't really work. I got our clothes ready and came downstairs. I started a pot of coffee, packed Ellie's lunch and got her sunscreen on. We drove Ellie to camp and came back here to hang out.
Mom called, they had lost their power with the storm last night. Nick and I ran to TJ Maxx on the way to Mom and Dad's house. I was lucky and found that they still had the train sheet set and we will use that fabric to make Nick's curtains. We went over to Mom and Dad's and we had lunch. Nick played for a little bit before we came back home.
Nick and I started taking apart his room. Boxing up his toys and trains, removing the decals from the walls, taking down the pictures and curtains. Rob came home with all the paint for Nick and Ellie's rooms. I took a couple pictures of the furniture we need to sell and then Rob moved the furniture out of the room and started painting.
I went outside with the kids and I started to prep the furniture to paint. Ellie helped me sand the beds down but quickly lost interest when our neighbors came out. I was able to get the bed and drawer fronts painted but since it got so humid out the paint didn't want to dry and instantly came off when you touched it. Rob ended up using the palm sander to do all of Ellie's furniture and we will need to touch up Nick's tomorrow.
We ordered dinner and Nick and I went to pick it up. Rob got all of Nick's room painted we will just need to see it in the daylight to see if we need to touch any of it up. We have the kids sleeping in the living room tonight. We put the new mattresses together and made them up and they have this huge bed to sleep on. The great news is the new mattresses are very comfortable. Rob and I called it a day a bit after 10:00PM tonight. Rob washed the brushes up and I got put the hot pad on my back.
I feel like I am sort of falling apart today. My feet are hurting because I stood to paint all the furniture. My lower back and hip is hurting. My incision still has the dull pencil probing pain. I took some Tylenol and I hope it starts to work soon. I think we will be able to get Nick's room done by the afternoon and then I think we will start Ellie's room. Visualising my healthy and continually healing body and the new normal, Tree